Please help me with some advices

Hi guys, first i want to excuse me for my absolutly terrible english:) i need some advices, because my mom and my father don'want that i keep a second BP. I'm fifteen and i really don't know how to do! Can you help me with some advices? I really want to make a snake breeding. Of course if the post doesn't respect the forum rules, delet it.
Thank you guys and have a good day from Italy;)

Pretty easy being a parent and remember being 15. Their house, their rules. You wan to breed your pythons....feel free. You will probably need to have a job to pay for the hobby and your own place to do it. Give it a few years.....finish being a kid, get a bit grown up, and when you are on your own making your own rules do what you want. However, until then you are under their roof and their rules.

you need to get your parents to agree.

ask for permission to get another one when christmas or your birthday is coming up. also parents like to reward some things. so you can try to make a deal, for example: if you manage to improve your grades at school, you can get another BP. it depends on circumstances.

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Originally Posted by Anaconda99

my mom and my father don'want that i keep a second BP.

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If your parents have given a reason for their decision - your grades at school aren't stellar, or you don't care for the one you have appropriately, or they can't afford it, etc. - what have you done to fix the problem?

There may also be valid reasons, such as not enough room in the house for a second tank or a breeding set up, there's no good reptile vet in the area in case of an emergency such as an egg-bound female or a prolapsed hemipene, you'll be going away to college in a few years and they'll be stuck wth the snakes, etc.

I know that i live in their house and i have to follow theri rules and i agree with you, but this is my hobby and my passion, i don't drink and i don't smoke and i have very good marks at school, one year ago i kept my firt ball python and now i'm tryng to get my parents agree, but i'm as grown as to understand that i can't do whatever i want

Sounds like you already know the answer. Yes, your hobby and your passion. Still....their house their rules. Simple as that.

Just go and buy snake and relax...

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H20 hunter i don't talked to them yet, but i'm really skared aboute their response

All the more reason. If you are scared or concerned about their reaction then you know their answer. You have plenty of time....don't rush it. Your parents have allowed one snake in their home. They probably are doing a decent job of feeding, housing, and providing a loving home for you. The best way you can pay them back is to show them respect. If that means putting your dreams of breeding a new morph or simply breeding your own royals then you are just going to have to wait. I know...it sucks sometimes being a kid. It also sucks sometimes being a parent.

By all means talk to them. Keep it open and receptive to answers you may not want to hear. Thats life.

Finally i decided to talk with them aboute these things, but i know that i have to show them respect and i do it every dai of cuore, but this evening i'll talk with them.. Of course if they definitly decide for a finally NO, i'll understand it , i can wait 4 years to breed snakes if they don't want.