for those who raised their bci's from a baby...
it won't pass, but you will get used to it. mine freaked me out when he started acting this way, because like you said... i was used to lap-dog ball pythons. nowadays when i handle my bci, who is pushing 4 feet at 1 1/2 years btw, i just let him do what he pleases. if he wants to get off of me, i let him, if he wants to curl around any and everything (which he always does), i let him. you'll learn how to handle your bci, it just takes time. i still get a little weirded out with mine sometimes.