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So...I caught feelings for a girl who says she doesn't feel the same. Any advice?

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Originally Posted by cecilbturtle

So...I caught feelings for a girl who says she doesn't feel the same. Any advice?

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Give her a Reptar... Ladies love Reptar.

whats a reptar?

Buck up ****o! But, on a serious note, if she's explicitly said she does not reciprocate the feelings that you have professed for her then you probably aren't going to change her mind.

Some people would say just move on, friendships are only for using each other and if you can't use her for what you want (whether it be friendly conversation or it's drugs (I'm kidding, but I don't want this to come off as a "I use all my friends for personal gain")) then it's time to move on. Cease all contact, try again in a few months and maybe distance will make the heart grow fonder.

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Originally Posted by cecilbturtle

So...I caught feelings for a girl who says she doesn't feel the same. Any advice?

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Backtrack! Be like, "I was kidding, I just wanted to see what you'd say."

Really, be friends. Some of the best relationships start that way. Worst case, you end up with a really cool friend. Try to think past the initial butterflies that we all have in the beginning, that feeling isn't permanent whether a romantic relationship develops or not.

Try to convince yourself that your feelings for her are misguided.

I think the worse thing you could do is remain friends with her in hopes that it will turn into something more. If you want to stay friends, accept the rejection and move on from it. If you can't accept it, then cease contact. I've had a few guys remain friends with me for the sole purpose of trying to wear me down and win me over, and it only really lead to resentment on their part and hurt feelings on my part when I figured it out. There will be other girls that are just as great (or even better) than her :gj: :love:

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Originally Posted by h00blah

Give her a Reptar... Ladies love Reptar.

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Solid advice right here.

Tase her and throw her in the trunk. Jk jk don't do that they'll take me down with you, and I'm too pretty for jail. I think it's best to remain friends. Don't expect her to change her mind though. If you can't handle just being friends, break off the friendship. But just leave her high and dry tell her why you can't be her friend.

Alcohol...