My OG has been skittish and flighty since I got her. She used to trace movements and act like she was going to strike. Now she just points in the opposite direction and takes off. I have tried to handle her gently here and there, but it's usually as nerve wracking for me as it is for her. Recently when I take her out just to change her to a clean tub, when I pick her up she fully extends away from me and pulls, trying to get away and even thrashes a bit. She's very forceful and panicky throughout and usually hisses a bit as well while thrashing.
I don't really mind not handling her a ton, but is there any kind of technique anyone has used to help calm a snake like this down? She's only 900g or so right now, but I'm thinking this is going to be a huge hassle to deal with if/when she breaks 2,000 or more grams or if I ever need to soak her, bring her to the vet, administer medicine, etc. I'd rather do what I can now.
I have tried holding her out for 5 min and not putting her back until she's totally calm. At this point I'm not sure if I can even attempt that because of this flightyness.
So anything other than short handling sessions that can help this?