I need someone to help me out by answering this...

how do you gain self confidence when you have been broke down to nothing left? without people lying to you just to make you feel better....

Ignore them. Simple fact is every one is gonna talk but what you think of your self is all that matters. Your the only you, be proud of that and forget anyone who tryst to tell ya different, that's what I do. Hope it helps.

Building confidence should come from within, not from what others tell you. Make a list of all your positive attributes and read that list out loud several times a day. This will force your brain to believe it (after some time) and your confidence levels will climb.

Positive affirmations really do work if they are repeated often

Hope this helps

The best way to build self confidence is to set goals, and achieve them. Start with something small and work from there...

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Agreed about writing your positive attributes down and repeating them daily. Also leave sticky notes around with a positive attribute where you will see it often. Such as bathroom mirror, fridge, desk, computer, cabinets, snake enclosures, etc., anywhere you look throughout the day. Tell yourself that you are you, and that's freaking awesome :)

I found the best way for myself is to have someone close to you to lean on. Someone who listens well and won't say things just to make you feel better. Someone who knows every inch of you and someone who you feel absolute trust with. I pour everything out onto this person. I just say every and all things that are in my head. This person doesn't usually need to say anything. Just putting it all out there is usually good for me and I can climb back on the horse and proceed forward happier and ready for anything. When you find this person, keep them around at all costs! I'm marrying my person in 2 weeks! That's what works for me, and trust me, I've been there. Recently, and in the past.

Keep your chin up. You got this!


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You can start by modifying your signature. If you are beautiful on the inside that will shine through to the outside. You also need to surround yourself with positive people to help with your rebuilding process.

Try being awesome. Ive been doing it for so long that now i just wake up in the morning and piss confidence and excellence.

I dont see how a girl as pretty as you could lack self confidence :confusd:

Wipe the negative from your life. Negative things and negative people. Find something your good at and do it. And lastly don't give a crap what anyone thinks of you or your actions. Go out and make mistakes. That how we get better.

When something so horrible happens that you think there is nothing else left, it is time to do what I call "starting a new chapter in the book of you". You can be anything you want to be. Don't let others hold you back. Do what makes you happy and ignore all those people who say and do things that make you sad. Life is too short to get down on yourself!