So my pastel male does not seem to want to breed. I tried putting him in with my spider male at which time the spider male was spurring him (spider is my best breeder). After the pastel got spurred he started zooming around the tub tail wagging like he was looking for a female. Put him in with the female and he is at the opposite end of the tub from her. Am I missing something? He has also refused food for the last few weeks also, so I figured he was wanting some lovin'. What else can I do?