Stick with what I got or switch?

I decided to buy Daisy a boyfriend last week. This is Daisy for those that haven't seen the picture I posted of her. http://i40.photobucket.com/albums/e2...grumor/014.jpg

So this is the male I picked out:
http://i40.photobucket.com/albums/e2...or/pinmale.jpg

She told me she'd take some off the price of a female mojave if I bought one... this is the one I was looking at: http://i40.photobucket.com/albums/e2...javefemale.jpg
Also happen to love this girl:
http://i40.photobucket.com/albums/e2...spiderfem1.jpg

So today I went to look at those girls again to decide if I wanted to get one. That is when I discovered that last night she posted up a female pin:
http://i40.photobucket.com/albums/e2.../pinfemale.jpg

I had actually started thinking to myself before seeing the pin that I should have just bought a spider male for daisy (I love bumblebees).. and gotten a female pin, but there wasn't one at the time. Now I'm thinking I want to switch my order... >_< Except I don't really like the look of the male spider compared to the females. The girls are really clean. He just looks... dark?
http://i40.photobucket.com/albums/e2...spidermale.jpg

Stick with what I got and save my money? Or upgrade to the girl, and keep my eyes open for a nice local male spider? Or am I just being too picky with that male spiders coloring?

They are all great looking snakes but I would go the pin! Spiders are easy to come by!

I say stick with what you got. You probably put more thought and effort into your original decision and would probably be happier sticking with it. Just my opinion...

*Edit* Am I the only one who sees a face in the head markings on that female spider? I'm tired...

It looks like she has a "tribal" impression of a b.p. on her head to me, although it is kinda skullish. I really like the color of the pinstripe. It's a beautiful snake, so I know I want a pin... it's just I kept thinking if only she had a girl. Never asked (like a dumb butt) and said I'll take that male!

I might stick with the male and pick up a bumblebee female sometime. Although I kinda wanted a bumblebee male.