I recently bought a male spider and a femal lemon pastel. I feed them both f/t my spider has a great feeding response every 5 days he has been eating. My lemon on the other hand not so good. She has eat twice since ive had her neither time she went at the mouse. I had to leave it in her cage over night. Its been 8 days since she eat last. She just doesnt seem interested in the mouse. Her temps are good she is housed in a rbi rack 91 hot 80 cool. I even put newspaper balls in there. should i go to petco and try a live mouse or wait it out a little more. she's not in blue or anything either.