i had narrowed down my choice to a 09 dark lavander albino retic. or a very large pretty pastel ball or several smaller even more impressive jungle pastel balls. at first i was "retic!" all the way but then i decided the balls are nice too and i could breed one to my female and female spider. so i was trying to choose when my wife walks up and flips out cuz she refuses to live with a retic(even though we already have). even if it is a baby. she was so mad about the idea she also refused the ballsas well saying she would rather have another sulcata. so i ended up going home empty handed. What do you think? should i get the retic and feed my wife to it someday, or get the pastel balls, or find her another sulcata?

i chose this section to post in because i figured you would be retic bias, as i am