When introducing my male and female one is always wandering and the other is lazy. During the first introduction i put the male in the females tub and the female just lays there and the male wonders around. So the second time around i put the female in the males tub and the male lays there and the female wonders around. Would it work to put them in a nuetral site so they both are active. Her tub is heating by a 75W night bulb and his is heated by an UTH.