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    Angry thinking about getting out of it??

    Well the past month has been really hard on money for my fiance' and I.I have a good paying job, but have made some bad moves when it comes to money. I have been just thinking about getting out of Ball pythons, reptiles in general. Dont get me wrong i love them to death. The last thing i want to do is sell any of my reptiles. Any suggestions on what i should do? Or what you have done in this situation?
    Please keep in mind that she does not agree with the snakes. She's interested in them but is afraid of them .

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    Re: thinking about getting out of it??

    Man... It can be very hard sometimes eh!
    Sorry about that. I havent been in that situation as of yet myself but I'll keep you in my prayers.
    Its hard giving up a hobby but if it's for someone you love a lot and need to take care of do what is best mate!

    Keep it real and we will be thinking of you!
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    Re: thinking about getting out of it??

    I would be willing to bet that there's some people out there who will take your most beloved animals into their care for a month or two, maybe more.

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    Re: thinking about getting out of it??

    Quote Originally Posted by Jonny2184
    Man... It can be very hard sometimes eh!
    Sorry about that. I havent been in that situation as of yet myself but I'll keep you in my prayers.
    Its hard giving up a hobby but if it's for someone you love a lot and need to take care of do what is best mate!

    Keep it real and we will be thinking of you!
    Cheers bro!
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    Re: thinking about getting out of it??

    i salute you your a brave person hope you get out of your tough times
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    Re: thinking about getting out of it??

    you'll find a way. dont give up!

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    Re: thinking about getting out of it??

    I know what your feeling. At one time I had 14 show dogs, who more than anything were family. When I fell on hard times I had to part with all except the 4 elderly ones who stood little chance of finding a good home. My heart was ripped out, but I couldn't afford a place where I could keep all of them. Luckily my best friend helped me find good forever homes for the younger ones. The older ones lived out their days with me. I only have three now to show, but that is a number that if I fall upon hard times that we will make it thru together.

    Maybe you could find good homes for most and keep your favorites. When times get better you could start again. The main thing is to do what is best for you and them. Things have a way of working out. I was upset about placing my young dogs, but they were so happy to get more attention than I could give at the time from their new families.
    Good luck whatever you decide.

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    Re: thinking about getting out of it??

    Wait, are you thinking of selling them for money, or because your fiance dislikes them?

    Either way, you can make a compromise and sell a few while keeping your favorites. If it's solely about the money there are always luxuries you can cut back on instead. Do you smoke? Quit. Same with beer, at least until you get back on your feet. Buy cheaper food, stop buying steaks and buy pasta instead. The little stuff adds up way too quickly.
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    Re: thinking about getting out of it??

    I think you might be making a conclusion about his financial situation, which I don't know what it is but if he feels he needs to let go of his whole collection. A man has to do what a man has to do. Although its hard for all of us to see, there are more important things in life than snakes. I am sorry to hear that though


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    Re: thinking about getting out of it??

    I wouls day; trim it down to a manageable number.. I am not sure how many you have. But I already know the 1-2 snakes i would keep if I had to get rid of all out 1-2.. it is tough I know. Not that it is the same; but we had hard times years ago and i sold off most of my extensive model horse collection.. some of which went on to triple in worth since then.. but proritizing is key in life.
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