okay... pastelxspider=bumblebee. is it better to have the pastel as a female and the spider as a male or should it be the other way around. I see varous opinions on this and was curious... is it better to have a female morph for certain combos or the male or does it not really matter.

example. I am getting a male pastel. I want to get a female spider and a female cinny. This will still give me the results that I want wont it?

I hope I'm getting my thought across clearly as I am not getting much sleep these days, so things tend to sound better in my head.