Now,i know this is going to sound like i am being a big cry baby,so i will give it up to Wahhh.But i am going to be the bigger man here and throw this on the table.In any case here is my little thoughts that i would like to get off my chest.Whether people in this community think that i am just a crazy reptile dude who has not a clue,or my crediability is on the low side,i love my herps regaurds of who thinks what of me.I try and give the best advice from my knowledge that i have been taught over the years of doing the herp thing.But find that more and more of the forums i go on people do not take me seriously or think what ever they may think of me.I know i am not as respected as most herpers which is fine,i can swallow that and take it like a man.I just dont understand why?Is it because i am to forward of a person?Or am i not good enough for anyones click?I meen it is not like i do not try and chat with people,no one imparticular,just chat about what i love most which is my reptiles,i meen that is why there are forums right?I meen are reptile people not suppose to stick together?Or is it just a click thing like i sald?You have to know certain people to get somewhere in the herp community?Someone once told me that i need more experience in reptiles?Mabe i do?I feel like everyone,even the ones on top of the game need more experience something new allways comes out with reptiles everyday.In any case,I just feel like this is one big circle and if you are not a part of the circle then you meen nothing.I am not trying to make this a huge big lecture or feel sorry for myself,or cause ripples here.(I do happen to like alot of these forums,this one included.)i just would like to know why over the years of being on forums and doing my own herp thing that people just think that i am a wacko with no knowledge or get no respect in this field i am not stupid,i was not born yesterday i do know what people think of me.And it is not just me but i see this happen to some others also.Some,well yea,they have no clue,but the others who really know what they are doing,get shunned for who knows why reasons.All i am saying is that,i understand there are different personalitys on forums and life styles.Can we not just get along?I meen this is why we are here is because obviously we all have the same in common,which is our herps.So if any one would like to add to this by all meens (No Bashing!) i can take the advice.I would like to add sorry for the tangent i was on,but if i do not let it out,my head will explode,and hopfully no one took this to heart to much.It is just what i see happen to often on every forum.And would like this year not just for me,but for all herpers to be a good one.Man i need to put away the wine!!!LOL....