Give them a Call, a Hug, a Visit today

[rlditmars]

As cliche' as it sounds, "Life is Short".

I lost my Mother recently. Normally I wouldn't share this type of thing but it hit me more profoundly because I also found out a couple days later that my cousin was in hospice and probably will not survive to the end of this month. I hadn't seen him in years because of geography but talked with him from time to time. He never let on about his situation until now. While attending to my Mother's funeral I made it a point to go see him. It is so hard leaving and knowing we are likely saying goodbye for the last time, especially when we could have had more time if I had only known sooner.

This thread is not about my loss. This is about not wasting precious time. As I stated, I don't normally share, so I haven't mentioned this before. However, since August 1, 2015 I have lost my Dad to heart failure. 6 days later I lost my Sister to a heart attack. 3 days after her I lost my Stepfather to leukemia. My favorite Uncle passed in 2017 from heart failure. One of my life long friends of over 30 years lost his battle with stomach cancer over the Christmas holidays last year. I lost my Mom this past Christmas Eve to complications from dementia. Now, I will soon lose my cousin to lung cancer. Please, before you all start sending your condolences, in which I do appreciate the gesture, I'd prefer if you would do this.

If there is someone out there that you have been thinking about giving a call or a visit, and you just haven't gotten around to it, don't put it off any longer. If there is someone you've had a falling out with and you've been thinking about reconciling, do it or at least try as soon as possible. If there is someone you've been afraid to approach with your feelings because your not sure they'll reciprocate, just place your cards on the table and let the chips fall where they may. Rejection be damned.

Life is short! This is not a dress rehearsal. This is the "Big Show" and it only plays once. Unlike Netflix, there are no reruns. You really should make the most of this and do it in real time, for you and for others.

Just my $0.02