Chaos is a MALE!! I have had him out and about with me a bit today and he's been very good! No stressing at all. We went to the local mom and pop pet store and checked out his new friend, we went to the Marine recruiting station (he told me he wants to be a Marine!LOL) then to Home Depot. I think he enjoyed the attention! Got several "OMG it's a snake" "Aww isn't he cute" " Does it bite...( to which i responded only if you're a mouse!) I told his story about how he was abused and had several kids simply fall in love with him. So i think Choas is a great BP ambassader. ( yeah i'm sure i spelled that wrong) Once i get Lucy i plan on making her one as well.