I have a Spider ball which I'm hoping is gravid, breeding with a male pastel, locked up many times 2-3 months ago. She has been soaking in waterbowl for at least a week...maybe 2 weeks with one day out of water. She is not shedding, I checked for mites, there are none, she won't eat. Hasn't eaten in about 2- 3 months, is this a possible sign of being gravid or is something wrong? She wants nothing to do with male now, she slithers away from him. Temperature in cage cold spot is about 80, hot spot about 90 degrees.