So my life just took a drastic turn.

Yesterday, I left my husband. Ok, he's not really my husband but we've been together close to 6 years, we have kids and a house, so close enough to a marriage. Anyway, things have been pretty rocky between us for the past couple of years, and I just couldn't take it anymore.

My 4 year old and I are staying with a friend for right now. Which is kinda stressful because she has another friend with her 5 kids staying here as well. Talk about a full house
I'm extremely thankfully my ex let me take my car. It's still officially his car ( all in his name ) but he's going to transfer everything to me when I get insurance and get paid. I NEED my car as its my livelihood, I deliver newspapers as a job. And trust me, it came as a huge surprise for him to let me take it. He use to always tell me if I leave him he hopes I have a good walk/good luck finding a new job.....blah blah blah.

Now if I can just let him let me have my snakes. His theory, he paid for them so they are his, even though they all have been bought FOR me. Anyway, to make a long crappy story short, I will be taking a small hiatus from the forums. I have a lot to do in the next couple of weeks, find an apartment, get ALL new furniture as I have absolutely nothing, not even a freaking mattress and stay strong for my daughter. I luckily found an organization that helps people/families with emergency funds to find an apartment, so I should be able to get an apartment this week

I will occasionally pop in and say hey, see how everyone is doing. I know this sounds kinda lame, but thanks for kinda letting me get it all out, I feel a bit better now