Just wondering. I have read lots and lots, but this is what I am not sure of. How long or are there signs if a pair is going to lock? Like should they at least pretend to like eachother first. I put my pastel in with his date, and they both just took a side and layed still. The male slowly crept over, and as soon as his tongue touched her back, she buckled and he flinched, and retreated. This guy has no game.....so, my question, if he doesnt make the move, should I give up and try again in a few weeks, or keep on trying....How long until they lock for the first time?