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    My apologies

    In recent history, I reacted poorly to criticisms from others on this site. Please allow me to explain:

    As to my "Cold and callous" disposition:

    Being a veteran of the War in Iraq, I am no stranger to pain and suffering. It is very likely that my experience on the battlefield clouded my judgement as to the wellbeing of the animal in my care.

    Also please consider that I am an economics major; though It seems outwardly that I have no compassion, I do! I think initially in decimals and dollars, it takes me a couple of days to process emotion. It's just the way I'm wired. I am definitely a man of compassion and love. On the civilian side I am an elementary school teacher. I care for my canine pets and well as my herps.

    The situation with Gadsden (My snake) came at a very inopportune time. They recently changed the laws in my state as to tire tread for licensing and registering vehicles. I was unaware as to the change, so the need for new tires on my truck was a very unpleasant surprise which drained my emergency fund. Two days after, I first discovered my snakes condition (I initially thought that it was a mouse that hadn't fully digested, and thought it no big deal). when I discovered the severity of what it was, I immediately came to this forum, called friends, vets, local pet stores, and checked Facebook for options. Please do not confuse an unfortunate sequence of timing for unwillingness to help. Yes, I think in terms of decimals and dollars, but I am no heartless animal.

    I would very much like to apologize to everyone for my actions and words.

    A bit of good news: Gadsden's condition is improving! With a thorough regiment of soaking, sugar-water and anti-biotic ointment, along with removing all substrates and anything that could further irritate the prolapse, and keeping the temperature at a slightly warmer than normal level and heightened humidity, Gadsden seems to be on the rebound.

    Thank you for your guidance direction and concern for my pet.
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    Alright!

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    Re: My apologies

    No problem but next time you should watch how you say things like that. Glad to hear it's getting better.

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    Hey, I just read through your thread and I saw where you were not sure how much sugar should be added to the water.

    I have never dealt with a snake prolapsing but I have with a gecko (hemipene prolapse). The sugar solution should be nearly syrup consistency and just make sure to keep the area moist so it doesn't die and become necrotic. As long as the flesh is still looking healthy (not turning strange colors or black, etc) it may not need surgery and may go back in on its own (I am not a vet and haven't seen the injury so take that with a grain of salt..)

    I hope that helps, good luck!

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    Re: My apologies

    Thank you for your post and for letting us understand a bit more about where you were coming from.

    I'm glad to hear that Gadson is making improvements!

    Oh - and thank you for your service!

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    I'm really glad he's doing better! And as said above, thank you for trying to help us understand better where you were coming from. I think sometimes people (myself included) forget that not everyone is like us, whether that's in regards to financial stability or just personality, and that our experiences can make us react to a crisis in different ways.

    I hope Gadsden continues to heal. I'll be praying for him! *hugs* And as Rab said, thank you very much for your service =)

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    Re: My apologies

    Quote Originally Posted by coldblooded View Post
    Hey, I just read through your thread and I saw where you were not sure how much sugar should be added to the water.

    I have never dealt with a snake prolapsing but I have with a gecko (hemipene prolapse). The sugar solution should be nearly syrup consistency and just make sure to keep the area moist so it doesn't die and become necrotic. As long as the flesh is still looking healthy (not turning strange colors or black, etc) it may not need surgery and may go back in on its own (I am not a vet and haven't seen the injury so take that with a grain of salt..)

    I hope that helps, good luck!
    I found direction for that on this site. It is DEFINITELY helping! Thank you for your clarification though!
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    Re: My apologies

    Quote Originally Posted by emiebeth View Post
    I'm really glad he's doing better! And as said above, thank you for trying to help us understand better where you were coming from. I think sometimes people (myself included) forget that not everyone is like us, whether that's in regards to financial stability or just personality, and that our experiences can make us react to a crisis in different ways.

    I hope Gadsden continues to heal. I'll be praying for him! *hugs* And as Rab said, thank you very much for your service =)
    Your prayers are always welcome! Thank you so much!

    As for my service it is my pleasure; I love what I do.
    People will only give up their liberties under false pretenses.

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    Good. I hope that he heals quickly and without much difficulty.

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