So I've got a female pastel and a male spider, each at about 230 grams right now. This is probably a dumb question, but how can get them both at the right breeding size when the female needs to be around 2000+ and the male between 800 and 1500? I know I can give her more food and I can give him a little less, but how do I keep the male from getting too big and keeping that weight for several years? What's the top end weight for male BPs?
Thanks,