Just need positive thoughts/prayers

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The hardest part for me right now is our 2 year old literally begging for his mommy and he can't see her at all. He also knows she is in the hospital and will not accept any other explanation of why she is gone. I feel so bad for him because he just doesn't understand.

[kevinb]

That is hard. Is there a reason he can't see her? Hospital policy or what?

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It is because I work on average 14 hours day and he can.only go in with me which would only be on weekends.

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Oh just to add more on top of everything tomorrow is her birthday...

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Just an update. Based off of measurements the babies are both at 2lbs 4oz. My wife is dilated to 4cm and if she gets to 6 she will have an emergency c section. Every day she has tests done to monitor the babies and all that and they look great so far.

[Nick_bp]

Wish you the best of luck and and hope everything goes alright for you. Definitely in prayers.

[ElliotNess]

I dont sugarcoat crap but let me Tell you from First Hand Knowledge, this situation will be what you make of it. You have ONE Job that emcompasses a few things.

1- You are your wifes strength. You become fragile, she will become the same and her mental will affect physical

2- You are the warrior that will have to be all over hospital staff

3 - When your kids come you feed them your energy..

How do I know. My very active 6 year old was born at day 169. Exactly the 1st day of the 25th week. He was 1lb 12 oz. I slept under his incubator for 3 days straight. He was taken off of a respirator the morning of the 3rd day cause he was breathing on his own. (YES 3rd day) He had one minor surgery to close the flap that usually closes with the first cry. He is an absolute pleasure and terror.

So I am not gonna tell you it will be ok and hugs and kisses... I am gonna tell you its time to get on your game. Ill pray for you and your family but YOU have to make the situation what you want it.

[andyroof1979]

What that guy said⬆⬆

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I want to thank everyone for the kind words and support as well as the advice. When the twins are born I will be sharing pics here with all of you.

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Another update. She is 60% effaced, thinning of the cervix, so the time is coming very soon.