Re: Beware of Casey Lauren Byiers (Rhasputin/EVLV/Eccentric Evolution)
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Originally Posted by
mr.spooky
I was pretty stupid, and made some bad decisions when I was young. Sence then, I have learned from my mistakes, and from those mistakes I feel like I make much better decisions now.
At some point, EVERYBODY has done something stupid or things that they regret. You cant change the past, but the past can influence decisions in the future.. Trust and respect can be earned.
jason
This is absolutely true. But, I would argue that although trust and respect can be earned, it can't always be regained.
Re: Beware of Casey Lauren Byiers (Rhasputin/EVLV/Eccentric Evolution)
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Originally Posted by
dart
This is absolutely true. But, I would argue that although trust and respect can be earned, it can't always be regained.
You have to actually put some effort into it, too. It doesn't just come flooding back at the absence of more bad behavior.
Re: Beware of Casey Lauren Byiers (Rhasputin/EVLV/Eccentric Evolution)
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Originally Posted by
jinx667
It is not at an end until Stina has a healthy mouse (the correct one) in hand.
x2. At this point she could still be blowing smokes up our asses.
Also i agree with WarriorPrincess and believe that Casey needs to give a public apology.
Re: Beware of Casey Lauren Byiers (Rhasputin/EVLV/Eccentric Evolution)
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Originally Posted by
Mike41793
Also i agree with WarriorPrincess and believe that Casey needs to give a public apology.
I don't agree on this one. I don't think it needs to be public for it to be sincere. Now if she has any desire to repair her reputation and not just slink away into the ooze, the a public apology would be a good start. But if it's just this one thing that needs to be made good for her to go on, then it's not necessary that it be done here.
I'm not sure she's got the stones to admit to it and apologize to it in public.
Re: Beware of Casey Lauren Byiers (Rhasputin/EVLV/Eccentric Evolution)
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Originally Posted by
wilomn
I don't agree on this one. I don't think it needs to be public for it to be sincere. Now if she has any desire to repair her reputation and not just slink away into the ooze, the a public apology would be a good start. But if it's just this one thing that needs to be made good for her to go on, then it's not necessary that it be done here.
I'm not sure she's got the stones to admit to it and apologize to it in public.
I had her reputation in mind when I suggested it, but I still believe that in a situation that has gotten this public to begin with, a public apology would be a good start. Someone who can admit they're wrong and apologize for it in public has a better chance of salvaging what little remains of their reputation...maybe. Plus, I think after what Stina has had to go through, she deserves it.
Certainly a private apology can be sincere...hopefully more sincere...and Stina should get one of those upon delivery of the mouse as well.
That's just my two cents.
Re: Beware of Casey Lauren Byiers (Rhasputin/EVLV/Eccentric Evolution)
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Originally Posted by
WarriorPrincess90
I had her reputation in mind when I suggested it, but I still believe that in a situation that has gotten this public to begin with, a public apology would be a good start. Someone who can admit they're wrong and apologize for it in public has a better chance of salvaging what little remains of their reputation...maybe. Plus, I think after what Stina has had to go through, she deserves it.
Certainly a private apology can be sincere...hopefully more sincere...and Stina should get one of those upon delivery of the mouse as well.
That's just my two cents.
x2 i was thinking along the lines of her rep in the herp/rodent community as well. As i said in my first post in this thread, up until this point ive found Rhasputins comments to always be helpful and informative. People have asked questions in the rodent sections before and im pretty sure i have even suggested PMing her if she doesnt comment on the post. Seems like a nice girl that has just made some poor choices. A public apology to stina would really help her reputation imo.