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we all have our curve balls in life and ive went through something similar... but on thing ive noticed since ive become single my friends around town and cross country where there for me when i needed the support, so i offer you my support, good friends are hard to find even ones that know what you went through

Im really sorry. But, now you have time to focus on your reptiles. And, dragonboy? If you love something, let it go. If it comes back, its yours to keep. She obviously wasn't it. Just keep looking, you deserve way better then she could ever give you.

Originally Posted by Johan

You sound like both a very strong person and a very kind person. I think that you deserve much better. It is very inspiring to see someone with such a great attitude in very dark times. I hope that I can one day be as strong as you are. I wish you the best,

Johan

Thanks for the support...

Originally Posted by texanborn

Well IMO she's a sorry excuse for a woman. After 12 years I would think you both would be able to talk face to face about issues. What she did was very cowardly and I agree with Johan- you can do better and deserve to be treated with as much kindness and dignity as you seem to possess. You behaved alot better than others in the same situation I know, so kudos to you.

I'm really sorry this happened to you but its better now than dealing with messy legalities after the wedding. Focus on yourself and being happy in whatever you decide to do in your life. Being happy is all that matters.

btw, I think you're an awesome person and thanks for sharing all your wisdom in the forums, its really appreciated!

Mindy

Thanks so much for the support. Things have been going good though. I have a lot less stress, and have really been able to enjoy just being me... And my ball python collection is really starting to grow...lol

Well IMO she's a sorry excuse for a woman. After 12 years I would think you both would be able to talk face to face about issues. What she did was very cowardly and I agree with Johan- you can do better and deserve to be treated with as much kindness and dignity as you seem to possess. You behaved alot better than others in the same situation I know, so kudos to you.

I'm really sorry this happened to you but its better now than dealing with messy legalities after the wedding. Focus on yourself and being happy in whatever you decide to do in your life. Being happy is all that matters.

btw, I think you're an awesome person and thanks for sharing all your wisdom in the forums, its really appreciated!

Mindy

You sound like both a very strong person and a very kind person. I think that you deserve much better. It is very inspiring to see someone with such a great attitude in very dark times. I hope that I can one day be as strong as you are. I wish you the best,

Johan

read this post and i could not post back, thats crazy how she couldnt just talk with you she just left a note kinda low but everything happs for a reason good luck at least reptile will b good