Ok, I put a 8 crickets in the tank this morning to see if he would come out and eat. Well I went to run a few erands and when I came home guess who was out and about. I don't know if he ate the crickets but I can tell you one thing He was at the side of the aquarium where my spider cage is and there was a cricket in there so maybe he was trying to get him. The second he saw me he RAN back in his hide. I just hope this passes and he will start to stay out when I come in the room. The one thing that makes me nervous is he was like this at the pet store everytime I went in there. Really shy and not wanting to come out.