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    Re: Advice needed.

    Quote Originally Posted by bcr229 View Post
    Did she have her mail forwarded?
    No clue. Don't think they would give me the address if she did.

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    Re: Advice needed.

    Quote Originally Posted by Skyrivers View Post
    No clue. Don't think they would give me the address if she did.
    Is she still getting mail at your address?
    When you have your mail forwarded, the USPS sends a postcard to both your new and old addresses so you can verify the change. Do you remember seeing one?
    Have you tried sending a letter to her at your address to see if it gets delivered to you?

    Finally try asking your questions here: https://www.expertlaw.com/forums/

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    Re: Advice needed.

    Quote Originally Posted by bcr229 View Post
    Is she still getting mail at your address?
    When you have your mail forwarded, the USPS sends a postcard to both your new and old addresses so you can verify the change. Do you remember seeing one?
    Have you tried sending a letter to her at your address to see if it gets delivered to you?

    Finally try asking your questions here: https://www.expertlaw.com/forums/
    Nothing in the box about it yet. Will check today.

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    Did you also report the dog being abandoned? Do you want to keep it or re-home it? Depending where you are, animal abandonment can be considered
    a "crime".

    You should try mailing her a notice (hopefully it will be forwarded) saying that as of (pick a date & insert) all property including animals left will no longer be
    considered hers. That is reasonable...after that I'd donate any clothes & personal effects left to the nearest women's shelter or thrift store, & decide on the
    animals. Even IF your mailed notification comes back to you as refused-unclaimed-or unforwardable, that gives you PROOF that you made a good effort to
    contact her and that protects you legally.

    Sorry you're having to deal with this...she's being very immature.

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    Re: Advice needed.

    Update. She messaged me on Facebook (hate Facebook). She is coming Saturday. She said she can not have the dog where she is going but did not respond about the reptiles. Hope this all is resolved Saturday. I am happy to take the dog and what reptiles she doesn't take with her. We will see. Update after Saturday.

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    Re: Advice needed.

    just popping in to say im silently watching and im sorry you're going through a difficult patch. at the end, you will be much better off. stay tough for the animals.
    4.4 ball python
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    1.0 corn snake
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    0.1 human ✌︎

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