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  • Break up with GF and not go back to EX

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    Re: Personal, venting.... so fustrating.....

    Quote Originally Posted by Skyrivers View Post
    I did end the relationship with the current GF last night. I am happy with my life and content with everything else but missing the EX. Not looking for someone to make me feel good and I don't feel bad about myself. Just sad missing what I thought I had and now the EX is asking for a second chance.






    It has been almost 3 years and still miss her very much. So many little things meant so much. I have always been completely honest with the current GF. She hopes to change me. LOL. You cant change anyone. Just like I cant change who the EX is. Just makes me sad that the EX is that way.
    I'm glad you ended things last night. I truly believe it's best for BOTH of you. Spend some time with you, take care of yourself first. You've got your snakes to care for and spend time with. They won't try to change you and they won't ditch you and destroy your heart. (Well, snakes are escape artists, maybe a bad analogy, but you get my point, hahaha)

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    Re: Personal, venting.... so fustrating.....

    That is what Great Danes are for. Such wonderful loving cuddle bugs.
    Quote Originally Posted by craigafrechette View Post
    I'm glad you ended things last night. I truly believe it's best for BOTH of you. Spend some time with you, take care of yourself first. You've got your snakes to care for and spend time with. They won't try to change you and they won't ditch you and destroy your heart. (Well, snakes are escape artists, maybe a bad analogy, but you get my point, hahaha)


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    Those are two totally adorable "therapists" you've got there!

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    Re: Personal, venting.... so fustrating.....

    I agree with hillabeans cut all communication. Block her on every outlet. You can forgive bit never forget. her contacting you is allowing her control over you. I have been there. Block her on all media and change your #. You can't move on if she is allowed to contact you. Give her a final goodbye text to say your peace and end all communication. I wish you well in this journey it is a rough one.

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