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My Bp doesnt like me :(
Ok, so ive had honeybee for about a month now, and she seems attached to my uncle. I have picked her up before and let her explore, she seemed fine until she went up to my leg and bit me,(that problem has been tooken care of) anyway, i dont know why, but im still afraid of getting bit, I know, it doesnt even hurt, I think its the surprise of getting bit, and that i dont want to hurt her.( Shes big, about 3 1/2 feet) So i tried to take her out of her cage one day, and she wouldnt let me, she went up in a ball. My uncle took her out and she was just fine. But i can sit down a little away fro her, and she avoids me . It really hurts to me, because I have always wanted a ball python, and she wont even let me pick her up. But she lets my uncle. Also, I really dont know why im afraid of a bite when i have already been bitten out of a feeding response. I know, this is probably one of the dumbest posts, but plz help!
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Good news is that he does not hate you but it will not love you either, they are not capable of that kind of emotions, they do however sense whether someone is comfortable with the or someone that is apprehensive, uncomfortable or fearful.
Those are wild animals and owning a BP will mean you will get bit sooner or later, they don't enjoy being handled they tolerate it, so if you are looking for an animal to bond with a snake is just not it.
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Re: My Bp doesnt like me :(
Originally Posted by Deborah
Good news is that he does not hate you but it will not love you either, they are not capable of that kind of emotions, they do however sense whether someone is comfortable with the or someone that is apprehensive, uncomfortable or fearful.
Those are wild animals and owning a BP will mean you will get bit sooner or later, they don't enjoy being handled they tolerate it, so if you are looking for an animal to bond with a snake is just not it.
I used to feel this way until my wife got her BEL. They are BFFs and in love lol.
Her BEL comes out of her hide when my wife comes around and goes to the door of her enclosure. She also pushes her head into her fingers for her massage ....they cuddle.
I know, I know....not the norm....but they bonded
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Re: My Bp doesnt like me :(
One other thing to add. Spend time watching her, just watching - no touching or even opening the cage. Learn her patterns and her body language. This will help you to be more confident and get surprised less.
For instance, I know Mashadar will come out between 9:30 and 11 pm every night to explore. If I want to handle him I wait for him to come out. Then I just open the door and let him climb over my arms and I can lift him out. If he resists at all (ie curling his tail around a branch or retreating from my hand), I leave him be.
I know what his body language is when he is in feed mode or "hunting". When he has the slight 'S' curve to his neck and his tongue is going a million flicks an hour - this would not be a good time to reach in and mess with him or try and clean or what not. I've had him for two years and he's not struck / bitten yet.
Just give yourself time to learn her and for her to learn you. It may be that your Uncle is more confident. I know my guy won't strike when my fiance tries to feed him. He's a little flinchy and has jerked when the Mashadar struck one of the first times he fed him and my snake bumped his snoot on the glass pretty hard. Now Mashadar is hesitant to strike if I'm not the one feeding.
They may not have the ability to have higher emotions, but they can remember things. It may take time for her to come to realize that you are not a predator that is going to hurt her. Be patient, she should come around
*also, make sure she is getting properly sized meals often enough, they can get snarky if they are hungry
Last edited by Crowfingers; 08-12-2017 at 03:00 PM.
No cage is too large - nature is the best template - a snoot can't be booped too much
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Re: My Bp doesnt like me :(
Originally Posted by Crowfingers
One other thing to add. Spend time watching her, just watching - no touching or even opening the cage. Learn her patterns and her body language. This will help you to be more confident and get surprised less.
Also great advice. Great advice for any keeper new to snakes, or any animal really.
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Re: My Bp doesnt like me :(
Originally Posted by Crowfingers
One other thing to add. Spend time watching her, just watching - no touching or even opening the cage. Learn her patterns and her body language. This will help you to be more confident and get surprised less.
For instance, I know Mashadar will come out between 9:30 and 11 pm every night to explore. If I want to handle him I wait for him to come out. Then I just open the door and let him climb over my arms and I can lift him out. If he resists at all (ie curling his tail around a branch or retreating from my hand), I leave him be.
I know what his body language is when he is in feed mode or "hunting". When he has the slight 'S' curve to his neck and his tongue is going a million flicks an hour - this would not be a good time to reach in and mess with him or try and clean or what not. I've had him for two years and he's not struck / bitten yet.
Just give yourself time to learn her and for her to learn you. It may be that your Uncle is more confident. I know my guy won't strike when my fiance tries to feed him. He's a little flinchy and has jerked when the Mashadar struck one of the first times he fed him and my snake bumped his snoot on the glass pretty hard. Now Mashadar is hesitant to strike if I'm not the one feeding.
They may not have the ability to have higher emotions, but they can remember things. It may take time for her to come to realize that you are not a predator that is going to hurt her. Be patient, she should come around
*also, make sure she is getting properly sized meals often enough, they can get snarky if they are hungry
This....this is great....wish my hubby would understand this lol hes so scared of our two BPs and RTB
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Re: My Bp doesnt like me :(
This is a total theory but maybe she can sense that you're afraid? And that makes her afraid to go near you? Or maybe you can figure out what she likes about your uncle and try to mimic it (is his temperature, way of holding, amount of body hair lol thats weird but idk) on yourself? Lastly, maybe she smells something on you she doesn't like (a medication, your perfume, another animal, etc) don't worry I've posted wayyyyy stupider stuff on here. I hope you find something that works, dont be disheartened there's a ton of really knowledgeable people on here who I'm sure can help you out (better than me at least lol)
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Re: My Bp doesnt like me :(
Thank u, It might've been the lotion I was wearing at the time. I will try not to be so nevous too.
Thank u!
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Re: My Bp doesnt like me :(
Originally Posted by Alurii
Thank u, It might've been the lotion I was wearing at the time. I will try not to be so nevous too.
Thank u!
You're welcome! Glad I could help a bit dont force yourself to feel any sort of way, Try to be natural
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Re: My Bp doesnt like me :(
I think BP's dont exactly like or hate anybody.
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