A quote everyone should read ....

[led4urhead]

"I think it might be helpful for everyone to remember that the purpose of a forum like this is to EXCHANGE IDEAS, not dictate what is right or wrong or good or bad. If you disagree with what someone else is suggesting, you can say so without being argumentative or completely slamming the guy (or girl)." - Smynx

[mlededee]

i'd sure like to meet smynx in person--she must be one cool woman. that's an excellent quote--thanks for putting it up for us to keep in mind carson.

[Cody]

I have a feeling I know what that quote was brought up for. And if it is because of what I think, I tried to state my opinions as friendly as I could and respect the persons decisions. If it's not the topic I'm thinking of, then nevermind. Still, good quote. I try to follow that as often as possible. But I'm just looking out for whats best for the animals.

[Marla]

That quote is what earned Smynx the title "Queen of Common Sense."

Sometimes we need to remember what Mama said -- say it nicely or don't say it! A place like here, we can't *force* others to do what we think is best (with the possible exceptions of the households with more than one B-P.net member), and saying things harshly is more likely to result in someone leaving the forum than changing methods or opinions, in my experience.

[normballpython2]

i get the picture i will try to tone it down as much as possible and i apologize for that incident.

[led4urhead]

This wasnt directed at anyone specific ... just something for everyone to keep in mind.

[Smynx]

I feel so special! Thanks, Carson. That quote did earn me my title. Thanks to Randy, whereever he is. It is something we should all keep in mind. We've all lost our cool from time to time, sometimes for good reason, and sometimes because we were just being stubborn, but I think it benefits us all to express our views intelligently and coherently rather than ranting and raving about something.